The moment a someone reaches out about intimate photography—whether it’s boudoir, motherhood portraits, or skin-to-skin moments with their newborn—they’re considering trusting me with something deeply personal: their vulnerability. That trust isn’t something I take lightly, and it’s why creating a genuinely safe space is at the heart of everything I do.
Before We Even Meet
The foundation of safety begins in our very first conversation. I listen—really listen—to what their hoping for, what makes them nervous, what they hope this experience might become. Some come to me wanting to celebrate their sensuality, others are new mothers yearning to document the raw beauty of skin-to-skin bonding with their babies, and others are simply ready to see themselves through an artist’s eyes. Each story—whether it’s about reclaiming sensuality or honoring new motherhood—shapes how I approach our session.
I share my process openly: how I work, what to expect, and most importantly, that she’s in control every step of the way. There are no surprises in my work. We discuss boundaries, comfort levels, and any concerns before she ever steps in front of my camera.
The Pre-Session Connection
We speak frequently before our session – voice notes, texts, email – whatever they’re comfortable with & explore how they’re feeling. Sometimes nerves creep in, or excitement builds, or both. This conversation isn’t just about the details—it’s about emotional preparation. I remind them that this is their session, their story, and we’ll move at whatever pace feels right for them.
I also share a bit about my own philosophy: that intimate photography isn’t about performing or fitting into someone else’s expectations. It’s about authenticity, about capturing the essence of who they are in this moment of their life.
Communication Throughout & the co-creative process
I check in frequently— If something isn’t working, we adjust. If they want to try something that pushes their boundaries, we approach it together, slowly. I also share what I’m seeing through the lens—not constantly, but when I capture something that feels particularly beautiful or powerful.
I might suggest an idea, but I’m always watching for an authentic response. Does it resonate? Does it feel true to them in this moment?
After the Session
I check in a few days later to see how they’re feeling about the experience. Sometimes there’s processing that happens afterward—vulnerability hangover is real, and it’s part of my job to hold space for whatever comes up.
Watching someone see themselves through my lens—seeing their own radiance reflected back to them—that never gets old.
Creating safe spaces isn’t just about comfort; it’s about transformation. It’s about holding space for someone to meet themselves fully—in their power perhaps for the first time.
If you’re considering an intimate photography session—whether boudoir or celebrating your journey through motherhood—I’d love to hear your story. Every woman’s experience is unique, and creating a safe space for yours would be an honor.